Love,Dependency and Loneliness

I really want to bluff something about love and dependency as it always disturbs me everyday and confuse me to judge about my brain and heart .I dont know why every time a graduated brain fails with love and affection to everyone and why a strong heart which can survive even after loosing many friends slides and gets very emotional when it see a tear in its moms eyes.

We can hardly see a man independent ,ya no man in this world is ready to party alone and share his joys to himself and also no man tries always to dump sorrows in his heart life long thus we say exactly man is a social animal who needs other people for him to share emotions in their own way.we can see that we need a friend to go for a walk and another for a movie some friends to party some friends to share sorrow and this goes on....ultimately we survive happily when someone is there with us or away from us and listen to our heart.

At times the soo called " social enemies" like ego ,misunderstanding ,superiority and inferiority complex without even asking our permission gets to be friend of us and make all their best efforts to push away the friends and makes us to retain in its circle.At last we loose that particular friend for no reason and without even knowing that we hold our hand with social enemies mentioned above we result in loneliness sitting and thinking as only the memories are left with us ...

After few days or months again we get a friend ,we get attached with them ,again we have fights and this goes on in our emotional circle . Now let us try to make a decision, we are brilliant enough to analyse good and bad ,we tackle our exam without touching books ,we make our heart strong when we move to an unknown place and we survive, sometimes we feel very proud of us thinking of our self but when it comes to love dependency what the crap is going on between mind and heart .Is that an emergency period for heart and mind and decide to steal our democracy.

Even after many break up we search for love , even after many emotions which cheats us we are ready to help .So this love dependency circle circulates and alters our emotions everyday Is there any way to escape from this .Pl think and suggest a way to this solitary soul soon.................